I have yet to come across one good-looking racist. When I say "good-looking" I mean really good-looking, not merely "good-looking for a racist". When I say "racist" I mean the hardcore believer in racial superiority. The person who believes it they way they believe a religion, for instance. The kind of person who would strap on a bomb for a cause. Even by their own standards of beauty, meaning ethnic beauty, Aryan beauty or African beauty, or whatever other standard, they tend to be quite unpleasant to look at.

Too old, too pudgy, too doughy, balding, recessive chins, buck-teeth, jowls, paunches, asslessness, pronounced adam's apples, beady eyes, greasy skin, flaring nostrils, bat-wing ears, man-boobs, spindly legs, acne pits, face-wide noses. They all leave a lot to be desired in the looks department.

Your looks influence the kind of person you become. People spend their whole lives looking for something to feel good about themselves for. Academic success, a successful career, good parenting are not merely things you do, they are your attempts to feel proud of yourself. If you are good-looking you are constantly complimented on how good you look and you see the double-standard between your looks and those of other people. You never have to look far to feel good, just  for the nearest mirror.

If you are miserable with yourself for how you look, you need to find a way to compensate. You need to find an arena in which you can compete, or better yet make public discourse into one. You do this by working hard so that you can take pride in your hard work, by making yourself into something impressive, or you do it by finding fault in other people. The idea is to make it clear to the world that you are superior without the pressure of having to look good. When you preach racism, you don't have to be Brad Pitt, just white, or black or whatever your color of choice is.

If race matters then even the ugly in the master-race are good-looking, just by virtue of being the right shade.
 
The free era of the  Internet will end
Everything in life exists purely as a means to generate wealth. That’s how the men who love money see it. If it can be controlled, it should and will be controlled. Rivers make money for companies who supply electricity, that means that the river no longer belongs to “all of us”, but to the guys who have the right to dam it. The Internet is way too free, too much of a frontier, even now. It needs to be broken, to be made into a force for dumbing down and pacifying the populace, and, also,  making rich men richer. The end is fucking nigh but the few who care are outnumbered by the already lobotomized, pacified,
walking dead who see this purely as a means to look at pretty pictures and pass on chain emails.

You might not always have electricity
The whole illusion of
civilization depends on it, on comfort and pretty lights, and the ease of doing minor tasks, and on TV.  Everybody alive, even in the Thirdest of the Third World, was raised with the benefits of it, it’s part of what we expect from life, so that nobody can imagine a situation where it just was not available anymore.

That other people's children are unpleasant to be around
They are,
goddammit. They aren’t smart, or lovable, or mine, I have no concern for their well-being, no interest in their nurturing, and have nothing to gain or lose from them dying right now or going on to win Nobel Prizes. I really, sincerely, do not give a fuck if they get abducted by serial killing molesters or if they decide to try crack. It’s not my job to care and I don’t owe you anything. Expecting concern or adoration  from random strangers is a serious presumption.

That sex, just by itself,  isn’t "all that"
A warm, wet hole is a
warm, wet hole, a phallus is a phallus, an orgasm is a pleasurable reflex. No mystery, no magic. Everything else is all about your hormones and your desire to believe that there is some kind of happiness out there beyond what you can already find with your palm. It’s a human weakness, this compulsive searching for holy grails and pots of gold.

America as a Third World Country
People like to think that they deserve what they have. You grow up middle class it means that you are innately more worthy than people who grew up poor, right? That’s why middle-class people go into “why me?” self-pity mode every time tragedy strikes, people secretly believe that they are too good for bad shit to happen to them. America is wealthy because Americans are the coolest, best people on Earth, and nothing will ever change that. If that is wrong, however, if the rules of life and human foolishness apply here just like everywhere else, if Americans can be fucked without lube like everybody else.
 
The back dock, out of view of the guests, was the designated employee smoking area, and the only place where you could find any kind of diversity in the whole building.

Women worked in departments staffed mostly by women, black men worked in departments staffed mostly by black men. Mexicans, Asians, Eastern Europeans, everybody had their own segregated place where they never had to come in contact with the rest of us. The dock was the only place where we all had to talk to each other. If you went out there as the only smoker in your department, then you either had to go back inside and not smoke or sit out there and enjoy the company of somebody who probably didn't look like you.

It wasn't a big dock, so you either had to summon up the resolve to be a rude asshole, or you had to grab a milk-crate, sit, and do the small-talk thing. Numerous interracial, international, intercultural, hook-ups started out there on that dock. Black guys and white guys went out for drinks after discovering that they both liked football and therefore had something to talk about other than work, old white men and young black men joked around over Marlboro Reds and Newports or swapped stories about women. It sounds corny but it worked, nicotine addiction had us talking to each other even though technically we didn't have to.

Addiction has always been a great bond between people, which is why cigarette-brands are often geared to certain ethnic groups or sexualities. Drinking together is a kind of  intimate, but only slightly more so than smoking together. Rehab-groups are always diverse, and are quite possibly the only places that true, lifelong, interracial friendships are formed anymore, other than a foxhole in war-time, assuming the army still uses foxholes. Addiction strips away all the shit that people hold onto to feel superior to other people. All those people standing outside their offices on a cold day, puffing away are all admitting to each other that they have a weakness, that they are dependent on something. It's a mutual agreement to step down a rung.

So when there are bans on public smoking, in effect there are bans on the last diverse group of people with a reason to get together. The assault on social smoking is an assault on a means of integration, one more way for the powers that be to rule by way of society's divisions.
 
You don't learn to fight by watching Jean Claude Van Damme movies. You can't even learn by watching real fights. To figure out how you handle physical confrontation, and the physics of brawls, you actually have get into one.

There are a lot of guys out there who talk tough, who have confidence in their abilities because they can bench 200 or because they participated in a bar-brawl back in '01 and kicked some drunk's ass. The truth is none of that matters. Each fight exists in a universe of its own, with rules that get made up when the fight starts. There are some general rules, but every setting is different, and every opponent is different. These are a couple of things that the out-of-practice amateur should remember when the time comes. You probably won’t, so this is more for minor entertainment purposes than anything else.

It doesn't usually work the way it did in your head
If you train, hit a speed bag regularly and push yourself, and the guy you are going up against is terrified and also slow and old and fat, then maybe, on the 3rd or 4th attempt you might be able to land that perfect uppercut, or a balletic roundhouse kick. The odds still aren't in your favor though. Your hardest blows miss, when they connect they might hurt you worse than they do him. People don't usually just stand still and let you deliver accurate, on-target punches. A lot of the human head (the usual target of punches) is made of bone. If they are genuinely pissed or scared, or scared AND pissed you will mostly find out that adrenaline can do wonders for the  pain-threshold.

Pain
Brawls aren't usually one-sided. Watch a boxing match. Note how if it lasts past 3 rounds even the guy who is clearly winning the fight has swollen eyes and looks exhausted. Remember, that's with breaks and padded gloves and (usually) very fit athletes. An all-out brawl in which people are more-or-less sober and genuinely enraged, will last maybe 45 seconds at best, for most people, and there will probably be pain on both sides. If nobody grabs a baseball bat there will likely not be a knockout. It's mostly about stamina, who can duck more, or tie the other guy up till he gets tired, and, yes, who can handle pain the best.

Consequences
At some point during the fight you may hear sirens, or your boss/principal telling you to break it up. In the frenzy of white-hot anger people lose sight of the big picture. The people who can lose sight of it the best, who can shut out all the possible bad effects of what is happening now, those tend to win. They also tend to get fired and/or arrested.   
 
1. Man-boobs
Sometimes they even look exactly like real boobs, but attached to a guy. It’s bizarre how something that is usually a welcome sight can be transformed into something so monstrous by virtue of its context. It’s like some kind of B-movie abomination spliced from the genes of different animals, or a bizarre disfiguring disease. Tits on a guy, robbed of the sexuality connotations that all heterosexual men place on them, are seen for exactly what they are, useless, obscene flesh-bags.

2. Smegma
The definition via britannica.com:
“Under the inner layer of foreskin there are situated a number of glands that secrete a cheeselike substance called smegma.”
If that doesn’t put off your next meal then you, sir/madam, might be better suited for a job around medical waste or rotting corpses. Would you like to see pictures? Google has some. VERY NSFW and will not be linked to here. Circumcision, contrary to recent speculation, does indeed have some value, assuming you don’t have some weird fetish for this stuff, and I will bet you that there is somebody out there who does.

3. Back Hair
While chest hair makes you attractive to some women, the back hair that almost comes with it usually cancels out that attraction. There is something that looks unhygienic about it, like the reason you grew hair there is because you don’t wash properly. There is also the fact that the guys who have it tend to be assholes. Seriously, the next time you are at the beach and notice some hairy-backed, usually bald, Armenian-looking motherfucker showing his fleece to the world, watch him, he will probably curse at his wife or his kids at some point. Assholes.

4. Public shirtlessness
In most places women are forbidden to go around tits-wild, guys on the other hand go jogging in nothing but shorts on pretty much every street in every city in America, which is just wrong. Guys who walk around in public without shirts (”public” is any non-beach, non-pool deck property that you do not own outright) are asking to have their teeth knocked in. It’s like walking around in a shirt smeared with vomit. Nobody wants to see your shit no matter how good you think it looks. Granted I do have the choice to not look, but if I don’t know you are there till you cross my line of sight my good intentions will serve no purpose. What shirtless guys need to do is avoid the lines of sight of other guys. Sometimes self-consciousness is a good thing.

5. Sweaty bastards
We are. Guys sweat a lot and stink. Whereas sweat on a woman can be cute and endearing, the cuteness and endearingness being in proportion to the attractiveness of the female, guy-sweat has all the appeal of a wet fart. There is also the fact that guys wear their sweat as a badge of honor, like the reason that their shirt is sticking to them is that they have done something difficult or important, whereas you, another guy, are just hoping that they don’t accidentally flick a drop onto you.

6. Foot odor
Possibly due, in part to #5 up there, but most likely due to poor hygiene. You nasty fucks need to wash your feet when you shower, sprinkle baking soda in your socks and wash your insoles with bleach every night, I don’t care what you do but I should not be able to smell your feet while they are still in your shoes and while we are in an air-conditioned office, ten feet apart. If you can smell any part of your body without holding your nose right up against it, there is something wrong with you, you, sir, have a problem.

7. Flatulence
Chicks fart too, of course, but they don’t like to have it pointed out, they also like to do it silently (in most cases) so as to avoid comment. Guys think ass-gas is hilarious, at least you are supposed to find it hilarious if you are a guy. Ok, I concede that sometimes it is, if you are slightly drunk and somebody is doing it uncontrollably and you can’t smell it because of the everclear fumes in the room, but how often does that happen? And it’s still gross. It’s them sharing something that has been in their intestinal tract with you, with your senses. That’s way too intimate for a non-sexual relationship.

8. Gross desires
Scat-porn, sheep-fucking, used-panty markets, guys are the market for all of those. Straight penis-vagina friction alone isn’t enough for us, it has to be modded, accessorized. All guys are perverts, that’s why every man on Earth who has a computer has at some point looked at porn, and not accidentally either, I mean actively hunted down pictures of naked people doing acts that not too long ago could only have been categorized as “unnatural”. You don’t hear about women building dungeons for harems of under-aged captives, or stealing boxers from clotheslines, just men.

9. Sprinkling on the toilet
The seat of the toilet and the rim of the bowl, the floor around the toilet, the wall behind the urinal, the outside of the urinal, shit, if you just gave most guys a simple wall to piss on they would probably hit the ceiling. I realize that a Waffle House toilet at 3am on a Sunday morning is often not the easiest thing to hit if your vision is blurred, but at least wipe it up.

10. Horniness-sharing
I realize that you want to share your sexual conquests with other guys so that we all know that you got some last night and you are, in fact, straight, but I personally don’t need to hear about  “how good that pussy was”. Apart from the fact that I don’t know her if I am to mentally picture your story I have to mentally picture your dick, which is not something I want to do. Besides, telling this stuff seriously lacking in class. Not too many adults have fond memories of high-school so that anything that takes us back there makes us angry, and full of bitterness. Sharing details of your sex-life reminds me of 8th grade when it was all so novel that you needed to someone to talk to to compare notes (“my finger smelled like KFC fryer -oil!”). 
 
Before we get into this I want to say that this is obviously not a preferred way of doing things. That said, if matters at all to you that you will get into trouble for it then you probably won’t be able to go through with it.

Be aware of the consequences
The legal stuff, the fact that you have basically ruined your reputation (even if the guy was a notorious dick), those are all, obviously, inevitable. The less obvious part is inside your head. You spent your whole adult life up until that point eating shit and then you exploded, you can't ever know if you would or would not do that again. It was a loss of control. It is easy, at this point, to have your whole life spin out of control, have all your addictions and potential addictions get the best of you. You don't feel as if anything is in your power anymore. On top of all that it feels like it's your fault, even if the bastard had it coming for years before that.

You will be blamed. No matter how bad it was for you punching your boss, throwing him/her out a window or down a flight of stairs, will not make you sympathetic. If you bitch about how bad it is to your family and friends you might be able to milk a little false sympathy, but tackling the problem in the most straight-forward way is frowned upon. People will use the situation to feel better about themselves, all the times they took shit and did nothing about it will make them feel like they are more disciplined and sensible than you.

Note, also, that if you win the fight with your boss he, if he is a guy (and often even if it's a woman, but not always) will have to destroy your life in order to soothe his/her ego. For a man who sees his position at a place of work as an emblem of everything he has achieved with his life, being physically humiliated by an underling is not a small thing. He will not rest until you understand, once and for all, that you are the lesser.

If you do do it... (Note that this is not suggestion)
You may want to make it count. Do not stop halfway though it hoping that an apology will make things better. If you say something bad you might as well keep going with it, say something else. if you throw a punch, throw a bunch more, and some kicks. Make them feel the full extent of your wrath. It's not as if it will alter your position much. You will likely wind up in jail even if you don't. If you are going to get the death sentence for one thing, you might as well get it for four or five.
 
Conventional reasoning:
Do a good job. Work hard, be conscientious with your tasks, and friendly to your co-workers. Your boss will see that you do a good job, that you are a team-player, and are too valuable to lose to office politics.

The reality:
Your boss does not care who does a good job as long as the job gets done. The fact that you do a good job does not single you out as the boss is more likely to think that his or her management skill is what motivated you to do a good job, and that a trained monkey could do your job if they had an awesome boss too.

Conventional reasoning:
If you have a legitimate complaint about a co-worker you should document it and report it to a higher up.

The reality:
This hinges on whether you are a better suck-up than the person you are reporting. If they are the number one lackey you are screwed no matter how legitimate your complaints are. You will be discouraged from taking any actions, your name will probably be mentioned to the subject of the complaint and your life will be made hell both by your boss and by the co-worker.

Conventional reasoning:
Try to reason with the problem co-worker and come to an amicable working-relationship.

The reality:
Unless this reasoning takes place in the back of a windowless van and they are duct-taped to metal chair to which you have attached live jumper cables it probably won't come to anything. In fact, what it might do is indicate to them that they are having an effect on you, thus making them feel powerful.

Conventional reasoning:
Confront the co-worker, meet fire with fire. If they are making your life miserable you should go to them and tell them that you are not intimidated, and that you know what they are doing. Get in their face and make them understand that you are not just going to passively sit down and take their attempts to undermine you.

The reality:
Any show of aggression will be met with the trademark puzzlement of the passive-aggressive. They will do their best to avoid confrontation and to pacify you, but then ratchet up their plans for your destruction.
 
1) Watching two people having sex in front you, in real life
It changes how you think about sex, humans, and human relationships forever, suddenly everything seems less magical and special and you are left with the impression of the general lowness of the human species. The word “rutting” is what best describes the live human sex-act.

2) Being homeless
I mean the destitute kind of homeless, not the kind where you move back in with your mom. It doesn't make you a nicer person, it doesn't make you stronger, but even 2 or 3 nights on the street will give you an appreciation for shit that most people take for granted, and open up a little empathy for your fellow man. Note: any empathy you gain will be lost soon after you find someplace decent to live.

3) Smoking (cigarettes)
You become part of a specific demographic that cuts through racial and age-boundaries. More and more smokers are becoming a tight-knit community bound by nicotine addiction and pariah-status. It's like becoming a Christian in a Muslim country. You meet new people who give you the benefit of the doubt even if you are of a different race. If you happen to be black, non-black people know you want that cigarette more than you wan to rob them. If you happen to be an older person, they look up to you, because you know how to smoke without getting ashes on yourself. If you happen to be a chick, maybe they have a shot since non-smoking guys find them disgusting, and so on.

4) Russian roulette
There is nothing like having a loaded gun pointed at you with the safety off, even when you know that the trigger will not be pulled, you know that you are a millisecond away from eternity. Turn that up a notch by actually pulling that trigger yourself and all your doubts about the meaning of life and whether you really want to be here or not will be solved instantly. If you don't have access to a gun, driving down an unfamiliar country road at night with your headlights off is an acceptable substitute.

5) Get your ass kicked 
Trust me, it's not difficult to find someone who will do this for free, but it's best if it happens spontaneously, meaning that somebody who really wants to do it, just opens up and beats you down when you least expect it. First of all it gives you motivation for getting in shape, but it also makes you realize that there are people out there who hate your guts, that humanity has people in it who are stronger and more dangerous than you, and who actively want to hurt you. You see your vulnerabilities, you learn to distrust other people, and most of all it makes you want to compensate by working really hard at everything.
 
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